MERCY'S STORY...

HEY THERE!!!
I have been working on this post for a few days i apologise for not posting in a long while.
remember i said this blog will focus on life experiences..........THINK WELL i said so. well,you have to have a google account to be able to comment *nor vex abeg,google is only trying to feel important* its less than 5minutes on very good internet and like 25minutes if you use MTN NG*sigh*
 i met this lady who was more than willing to share her own story......Read and learn

i met dokun in 2001,i was only 20,second year in the university. i was more than happy to have a man so confident and loving all at the same time because men are mostly cocky and loving these days. our relationship was eventful,typical roller-coaster and then after the storm it becomes calm *lol* the calm was plenty because dokun was a very quiet man. our families bonded in no time and we got married in 2007 in Lagos,Nigeria. our marriage was not too different from our courtship days ,i mean nothing changed the only thing i noticed was the huge ring on my finger(that was what reminded me that we were married) because nothing changed at all. Our jobs were very flexible giving us plenty time to communicate,get intimate and fight too,i got pregnant in no time and gave birth to two lovely kids(twins) i had to quit my job because my boss according to my husband was becoming an ass,so i became a full-time housewife*i never saw it coming,dokun suddenly began to insist i breast feed for a year* i was loosing my husband. he began to see me as a nanny,all he talks about to me is have they eaten not even asking about my personal welfare.
i have tried to talk to him but i dont wanna guess if he is cheating.......i need your advise. kids bring joy i feel so lonely in my marriage what have i done wrong?

***********okay pls help mercy***#bless

A duty of LOVE

How often do you get to listen to family,friends& even foes?
Well! I love to listen a lot,I mean to everything that is one of the many reasons why I had to have this blog "running". In life we should always remember to speak in a way and manner that is worth listening to. The first duty of love is to listen! oh YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.
This is what I tell myself everyday"I may not be perfect, but my imperfection is what makes me unique from the rest of the crowd. To me, perfection is overrated. I am happy with my "not being" perfect.  I don't believe in the word regret, I believe in the phrase 'I know I messed up, and now I learned from it.'
Take time to listen.. Its a duty afterall Remember only god can judge you forget the haters cause somebody loves you.

Love&Peace
Xxx

My Life in....2

Food- serious topic for me. I love pepper. First thing learnt to cook was stew! lol I was like " Sorry mom,but your stew aint cuttin it!"

Cosmetics- I was about 19 when first purchased make up. It was a lip gloss" MaryKate&Ashley" loved it. would jus put it on&hit the road but NOW have so much Make up.. I miss the days I could "wake up&Go"

Clothes- love T shirts!i lack boobs so always hide it in my Tshirts

My Life in.....

Books- My favourite book is "Two Women" by Martina cole its exciting&insightful. was about 16 when first read it. what sparked my curiousity was the sacrificial love by a mother for her child. wanna be blessed with such strenght. its deep. Bimbo Dawodu gave me that book. Thank You

Movies- The Flight. have watched it 4times thanks to tunde. honestly its a must watch.

Television-I am so not a TV person but guess kinda had a connectio n with the cosby show. please judge me loved"Jerry Springer show" too

 too

some thing to share :)

Sometimes people need help, and that's okay to admit. We're all full of flaws and learning how to get through life one mistake at a time. I look back at my days growing up the countless mistakes I have made&ofcourse the ones I still make every once in a while. Life is beautiful...my boyfriend always says this even tho I feel like giving him a bruce lee kick at the sound of it*sigh* he is so right. He encourages me to look beyond my mistakes,forge ahead &take only one choice- DO WHAT IS RIGHT but I agree that we have to do a few wrong things in order to appreciate the RIGHT choice! I guess that's d essence of life confusion. Yeah! Tunde is his name. He is adorably blunt&he is a strong inspiration because his teachings have helped me..
Am about to make dinner...
Love&Peace
Xxx

hello people!!!!!!!!!!!!

wow!!!!!!!!!! i am super excited. *hehehehe*  i hope your sunday is going on well! THIS is not a gossip blog oh. apparently i can like to gossip a lot sha but am hoping we be as honest as we can be on this blog because its basically about sharing life experiences and helping the next person in need that''s what life is basically about. feel free to contact me akinboroyewande@oulook.com. am in the arms of the one i love. see you later xxx